Three decades in, and Rani Mukerji isn’t looking back, she’s looking ahead. With 71 films, a fiercely individual journey, and a National Award arriving right on cue, she stands as both a rarity and a reinvention in motion. In an industry quick to sideline women post marriage and motherhood, she’s quietly rewritten the rules, choosing honesty over hype, and substance over noise. At 30 years, this doesn’t feel like a culmination. If anything, it feels like a reset. On the new episode of the Bombay Times Lounge, which dropped this week on the Bombay Times YouTube channel, Rani reflects on the road behind and the road still unfolding. Thirty years in the film industry is no mean feat—marked by highs, lows, learnings, and incredible success. As you look back, do you feel a sense of nostalgia and pride, or do you feel it’s a journey that’s unfolding, like a work-in-progress?
It feels like I am starting a new journey, because obviously, when I see my earlier films, I don’t look the same. Also, now with my daughter turning 10, I think I’ll have more time to devote to films. I constantly want to reinvent and bring across a Rani to my audience that they haven’t seen before. I’ve been so fortunate that directors, writers and producers have thought of me for these amazing characters that I’ve got to play for the last decade, and that’s the decade where I got married and had a child. Fortunately, that didn’t come in the way of a director choosing me for a role. So, in a way, the audiences and the industry have helped me shatter the glass ceiling. They always say that once you go the family way, it’s the end of the road for an actress. But that’s not always true. Having said that, while I love being an actress, I enjoy the whole part of being a housewife. I enjoy the fact that I’m a mother to my daughter. I enjoy that I get to look after my husband (Aditya Chopra). It gives me immense joy to see my husband and my daughter support me in my journey in films, as this kind of support is so important for every woman. I know there are so many women who probably want to go out there and work, but don’t have the kind of support they wish they had. So, I’m very grateful for what I have, and I always tell myself to not ever take these things for granted.
Rani Mukerji
Today, there’s a lot of talk around “staying relevant”. While marking your 30-year milestone, you had written a note in which you had said, “Longevity is not about staying relevant, it is about staying honest.” Could you elaborate on that? I always give importance to the story that needs to be told, without thinking about the box office and other things that come with it. The audience always connects with honesty, irrespective of the genre. The problem happens when stories are adulterated just for the benefit of the box office. Audiences are sensitive enough and instinctive, they can sense a good story and a good film. They are looking for genuine stories, so it is important to be honest about what you are doing.
Shah Rukh Khan and Rani Mukerji
Winning the National Award in your 30th year in cinema (for Mrs Chatterjee vs Norway) — did that feel like poetic timing?It felt surreal. I think it was saved for this moment, probably because my daughter was old enough to understand what this means. The only regret I feel is that my dad, who was always my cheerleader, was not there to see it. My National Award has made my fans and well-wishers happier than me, as they have rooted for me all these years.How has being a mom to Adira changed you and your perspective towards life?The change happened instantly. Seeing that little baby, that little piece of your heart and soul, changes everything in a moment. When you talk about the concept of love at first sight and falling in love with someone instantly, I feel the whole concept started when a mother had a baby. Seeing your baby for the first time changes that concept of love at first sight for mothers. That love for your child is unconditional, and it’s something you can’t describe. It could also be a one-way love because you don’t know how much the baby will love you back and for how long (laughs). But really, for me, love at first sight happened with Adira.Tell me about the one role that changed you forever and why?Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s Black. I think Black taught me to be grateful for the little things that we take for granted – like how we are able to see, talk, hear and walk. The film taught me to be grateful for the gift of being alive.
Rani with Amitabh Bachchan in a still from Black
Shah Rukh Khan also received his first National Award (for Jawan) last year. The two of you have shared such a rich on-screen history. Was there something special about sharing that milestone moment with him?It was such a happy moment, as it was something that we both were so excited about. I started my journey in the movies with Shah Rukh Khan, and to receive my first National Award standing next to him – that in itself was an honour for me.Which is the one compliment that you have received that means more to you than any award?Recently, Adira wrote a letter to me where she declared me “the best mom in the world”. For me, that’s the best compliment, and nothing beats that.Which is the one co-star you wish you had done more films with?Bobby Deol.Which is the one co-star who pushed you to up your game the most?Shah Rukh Khan.Watch the full episode on Bombay Times YouTube channel. Click the link below.
