“I used to think they were gentlemen,” Nasibo says of the British military. She believed Edward’s father truly loved and cared for her. We have seen a letter the soldier’s mother wrote to Nasibo, before she fell pregnant, thanking her for making her son so happy. And when Nasibo told him she was expecting, she says he seemed delighted. He urged her to name the child after his brother if he was a boy, she says, and returned from a trip back to the UK with an engagement ring.
But when Nasibo was four months pregnant, she says he told her he had to return to the UK for an emergency and cut all contact.
Nasibo was forced by some of her relatives to leave the family home, she says, and her son was bullied at school for his lighter skin.
“They nickname him ‘the British coloniser’,” she told us. The UK governed Kenya from 1895 to 1963.
Netto was able to locate Edward’s father after the court directed the Ministry of Defence, Department for Work and Pensions and HM Revenue and Customs to share the man’s name and address. The man has asked Netto not to share his contact details with Nasibo or their son, but the lawyer is now in the process of starting the court proceedings to force him to pay child maintenance.
Another Kenyan, 18-year-old Yvonne, knew even less about her father than Edward did. She had been told he served in the British military but she did not have a name for him, and grew up believing he was dead. Her mother died when she was a baby, and soldiers at Batuk allegedly told her grandparents that her father had died.
The legal project has revealed – through a match with the man’s mother’s cousin, whose DNA had been uploaded to Ancestry.com – that in fact her father is alive and living in the UK.
After breaching five court orders, he eventually attended on the day his case was being heard. He requested a DNA test to confirm that he was Yvonne’s father, the result of which, a week later, showed this was the case.
He does not want contact with Yvonne at the moment. But his mother’s cousin says she is eager to meet Yvonne.
Not all the identified fathers have been reluctant to engage.
Phill, a former British soldier who was stationed in Nanyuki in 2004, says he is enjoying getting to know his daughter Cathy, 20. He had previously proposed to Cathy’s mother, Maggie, and spent extended time with his daughter over the first few months of their baby’s life. But when he moved to another deployment, he says his phone was stolen and he lost their contact details.
Maggie felt it was easier to tell Cathy her father was dead. But as she got older, Cathy discovered he was alive and tried messaging him on Facebook, but he says he blocked her accounts, not recognising them.
